I will never be able to watch the Spiderman movies again.

I’m not ready to delve into the recent emotional changes in my life publicly yet so; here is a quick and dirty (in so many ways) for you guys. Yesterday, I watched a film that a friend highly recommended to me. The movie is a twisted and dark yet humorous tale about love called Secretary. The main character is a young self-hating woman who finds a way to channel her non-typical emotional needs into more healthy behavior. The actress who played this part was Maggie Gyllenhall, the girlfriend of Spiderman in those movies. James Spader played the egomaniacal Dom, and played it scarily well.

This is not a movie I’d watch with my parents or with my children (unless they were older.) The film took what I felt was a very impartial, and in depth look at D/s (Dominant/submissive) relationships. I highly recommend this movie to anyone who has ever been curious about unconventional relationships and I’d like to thank H. for recommending this flick to me.

Published in: on March 21, 2011 at 10:18 pm  Comments (1)  

Breaking the Ice (Mature Content)

Sara drove up here yesterday. She really does have the most beautiful eyes; mischievous but with vulnerability peeking out from the depths. She called me when she got into town and we went for a drive. We were driving sort of at random but ended up out on Buck Creek. We moseyed north taking our time, drinking beer lazily. I was hoping to find a trail we could hike on up by the lake but none had had enough traffic to pack the snow, so I headed back towards town. She had taken me up on my offer to drive, and I was taking my sweet time enjoying the bright clear winter afternoon, and her company. (more…)

Published in: on March 14, 2011 at 7:44 pm  Comments (3)  

Now it’s Your Turn

OK, all you people who have been offended here lately; it’s time to stand up and be counted. To those of you who have been responsible for the steep rise in this blog’s subscriptions, I’d also like to hear from you; most specifically about why you chose to subscribe.

A couple of my writer friends have come right out and told me I shouldn’t waste my time writing anything except erotica. This isn’t as bad as it sounds and was meant more as a compliment to my erotica writing skills. I know what you are thinking. Sure there is A LOT of bad erotica out there, but there is also some good stuff, Anne Rice’s D/s series comes to mind. Unfortunately most erotica writers are very poorly compensated for their writing. This however is most probably linked to the amount of truly awful erotica passed off as writing.

Nowadays a good platform has become a necessity for all writers, but an erotica writer needs a really strong platform in order to have any chance to financially succeed. The days of dropping your manuscript off at a publishers and waiting for a big fat check are over. For those who don’t know, a platform is how an author sells themselves to the public: e.g. book signings, blogs, websites, etc.

So this is where I need my readers input. I tried to keep my more…unique writing pieces separate from this blog, because some readers here are family members, and I was afraid to offend them, (luckily I have a great circle of writer friends who provided me support with these pieces.) Now that I’m not too concerned about how people choose to offend themselves, and I need the exposure this blog can provide for my writing, I’m considering integrating my more risqué pieces in with my more traditional posts here. This blog will never be all erotica, I’m talking about adding just a lil’ bit of spice.

What say you? Why do you come here? What do you like, and dislike?

Published in: on March 8, 2011 at 8:44 pm  Comments (6)  

It’s Here!

Me today:

Me in twenty-five weeks:

Published in: on March 4, 2011 at 8:35 pm  Leave a Comment  

The Best 24 Hours Ever!

If you are closely related to me, or have ever used the phrase “Too Much Information” or its acronym TMI; stop reading this now, or don’t bother me if you get offended.

I’m in the beginning stages of an open relationship with a beautiful, intelligent, adventurous, great gal who shares most of my interests. Hi Tara 😉

My soon to be Ex, is great. She has to be the best friend I’ve ever had, she knows what’s going on and even entertains my sporadic giggling and happy outbursts.

The kids are taking this transition so well, I don’t even know what to say.

Last night I got a message from a hard-core homesteading, polyamourous, anarcho-capitalist who also happens to be a retired erotic model and porn star. Seriously.

Today I got this:

Howdy Burner! Your ticket order was put in the mail on 03/01/2011 to
the following address:

Translation: my Burning Man ticket is on its way.

I can’t wipe this stupid grin off of my face.

Published in: on March 1, 2011 at 8:45 pm  Comments (3)  
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